
We received a call recently from someone who found us online.
She shared that she is the medical surrogate for her sister and wanted to schedule a call to review and change her sister’s Medicare plan — without her sister being present.
It was a great question. And honestly… one we hear more often than you might think.
So let’s walk through it clearly.
The Question:
If you’re a healthcare surrogate, can you discuss Medicare plans and make changes for someone?
The answer is no.
Why This Is So Confusing
If you’re a healthcare surrogate, you’ve likely already been entrusted with important responsibilities.
You may be able to:
- Speak with doctors
- Help make medical decisions
- Step in during serious or urgent health situations
So naturally, it feels like you should be able to help with Medicare too.
But here’s the key difference most people don’t realize:
👉 Medicare plan decisions are not just medical decisions.
They are considered:
- Financial decisions
- Legal agreements
- Personal elections made by the beneficiary
If you’re newer to how Medicare works overall, you can start here:
👉 https://merebenefits.com/pages/medicare.html
What You Cannot Do as a Healthcare Surrogate
Even with the best intentions, being a surrogate alone does not allow you to:
- Discuss plan options privately with an agent
- Enroll someone in a Medicare plan
- Change or cancel coverage
- Act fully on their behalf for insurance decisions
And this isn’t about making things difficult — it’s about protecting the Medicare beneficiary.
What Is Required to Help with Medicare Decisions
If you’re helping a loved one with their Medicare, here’s what typically needs to happen:
Option 1: The Beneficiary Is Present
This is the simplest and most common path.
We can:
- Review options together
- Answer questions
- Make changes with their permission
Option 2: Proper Legal Documentation
If the beneficiary cannot participate, additional documentation may be required, such as:
- Power of Attorney (POA)
- Authorized Representative forms
You can find helpful forms and resources here: https://merebenefits.com/pages/medicare-forms.html
And if you’re planning ahead or helping a loved one get everything in place properly, this is where estate planning becomes incredibly important: https://merebenefits.com/pages/estate-planning.html
The Real-Life Impact
We see this happen all the time:
A daughter, sister, or caregiver is trying to do the right thing — stepping in to help.
But then they hit a wall.
Not because they’re doing anything wrong…
But because no one ever explained the rules.
A Simple Way to Avoid Delays
If you’re helping someone with Medicare, here are a few simple steps to make things easier:
- Plan to have the Medicare beneficiary involved in conversations when possible
- If they’re unable, make sure the proper documentation is in place ahead of time
- Keep important documents organized and accessible
We’ve put together a helpful guide to walk through common Medicare questions and next steps:
https://merebenefits.com/pages/resources.html
You Don’t Have to Figure This Out Alone
Medicare can feel complicated — especially when you’re trying to help someone you care about.
Our team is here to simplify the process and guide you through what’s needed so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.
If you’re unsure what your situation requires, reach out to our office and we’ll help you understand your options.
Questions about your own situation?
Kate can turn this into a specific answer for you — free, and with no pressure.